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You cannot stand over your child forever - but you also cannot afford to disappear and hope for the best. High-Trust Parenting shows you how to build family agreements that grant real autonomy while holding clear, believable lines around screens, curfews, and money. Instead of more lectures, you will learn to design simple structures and conversations that your child can respect, even when they do not like every rule.
Drawing on real-life stories and practical tools, Naya Kirell helps you move from battles to shared problem-solving. You will create a living family charter, draft workable screen time limits, design a fair system for chores and allowance, and map out a consequence matrix based on natural consequences kids can actually understand. Along the way, you will practise repair rituals after conflict, regular teen check-ins, and step-by-step plans for granting more teen independence without losing touch.
This book is for parents and carers who want to be neither controlling nor careless, who are raising primary-age children or parenting teens, and who suspect there must be a calmer way through daily flashpoints. High-Trust Parenting will give you a durable framework and concrete language for setting guardrails your children can believe in - and for rebuilding trust when things go wrong. The goal is not a perfect, argument-free home, but a family culture where respect runs both ways and your child learns how to handle freedom long before they leave your front door.

High-Trust Parenting

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  • Naya Kirell writes and teaches about how families can stay connected while children grow more independent and opinionated. As a parent who has navigated the messy middle years of homework battles, late-night messages, and slammed doors, she has learned that trust is not a soft ideal but a daily, practical discipline. Her work focuses on turning values like respect and responsibility into simple, workable agreements that real children will actually follow. Naya has spent years listening to parents, carers, and young people describe what happens after the lecture ends and the bedroom door closes. Those conversations convinced her that most families are not short of love; they are short of structures that children can believe in. She draws quiet inspiration from the long tradition of ordinary households, from Victorian terraces to post-war flats, where families have had to share tight space and limited resources with as much fairness as they could manage. In High-Trust Parenting, Naya brings that spirit of everyday practicality to modern dilemmas around screens, curfews, and money. Her aim is not to produce perfect families, but to offer hopeful, honest tools for parents who want to be firm without being frightening, kind without giving up, and respected without demanding it.

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