When a relationship breaks, it can feel as if your entire life has shattered with it. Decisions about children, housing, and money arrive all at once, just when you feel least able to think clearly. This book offers a calmer, more ordered way through the chaos of separation and divorce for parents. Written for mothers and fathers who want to protect their children as well as their own sanity, it blends compassionate guidance with practical tools. You will find clear explanations of parenting schedules, money conversations, and how to keep talking when you would rather walk away. Realistic case stories and simple exercises help you sketch your own practical divorce roadmap, rather than trying to copy anyone elses life. Whether you are just contemplating separation or already deep in paperwork, this book supports you in designing a workable parenting plan workbook of your own. It speaks directly to those searching for a grounded divorce for parents resource, a reassuring child custody handbook, or a no-drama co-parenting guide. Chapters on separation and finances and protect children in divorce sit alongside sections on life after divorce, family relationships healing, and managing co-parent conflict. The aim is not perfection, but a future in which both homes feel safe, stable, and genuinely liveable for everyone involved.
Divorce, Not Destruction
SKU: 9789376550425
$25.99 Regular Price
$20.25Sale Price
- Kaia Solander writes about family change, resilience, and the quiet systems that keep everyday life running when everything feels uncertain. She is interested in what happens after the dramatic moment has passed: how parents actually organise school runs, split bills, and keep talking when a relationship has formally ended. Drawing on stories shared by parents, co-parents, and adult children of divorce, Kaia focuses on clear language, practical tools, and emotional honesty rather than grand theories. Her work is shaped by a long view of family history. In many earlier generations, divorce was hidden in whispers or treated as a personal failure; today, more people are insisting on arrangements that protect children and respect both parents dignity. Kaia sees this as part of a broader cultural shift towards facing difficult truths in the open. Through workshops, writing, and simple conversation guides, she aims to help readers move from shock and shame to steadier ground, one thoughtful decision at a time.
